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  • When People Become Desperate

    After a break-up, I usually sit down and see what went wrong in the relationship in order for me to learn from those mistakes. I also take a while to be alone and appreciate the things I've learned about myself. But the…

  • Leting Go of The Past

    At the end of my last relationship, I realized I needed to let go of the "idea" of us and concentrate on me. But that's real hard to do. In a previous post, I mentioned how much his blatant disrespect for me when we wer…

  • Being Unofficial

    The other day, me and my friend w ere talki ng and she told me about how she's real upset with this guy she was talking to because he refuses to make any decisions concerning their status. In other words, she doesn't kn…

  • Single & Happy

    There have been times when I've read articles about people being single and usually someone is always complaining. It is understandable because sometimes it is hard to meet guys/girls depending on where you live, but I…

  • Pulling Through

    For the past couple of days I've been feeling as if I can't catch a break. I was suppose to get this check from this job which would have let me finally pay to take the GRE, but the check never came. On top of this mone…

  • Unable to Move

    One night I was out on the town with one of my girls when I noticed a guy staring in my direction. He was real cute. I smiled at him and he smiled back. I let my friend know what was up so she could give me some point…

  • Ways to Praise

    Sometimes there are days when I need some inspiration in addition to reading the Bible. When those days hit, I listen to an inspiration gospel mix cd my friend D made for me. It helps me get through the day with a sm…

  • Computer Love

    I was sitting at my computer when I saw an ad for Match.com. I never fully understood the ideal of online dating services. I'm not saying I wouldn't try it one of thee days, I've just always appreciated interaction. In…

  • The Want to Grow

    Recently, I have re-dedicated myself to my Christian walk. I felt bad about the many times I've neglected my relationship with God. Being in between homes, I sometimes feel as if I have no grounding, but then I realized…

  • The Ability to Serve

    Today I was looking at the Daily News when I came across this article. Yvrose Pierre, the principal of the Brooklyn School for Career Development, devotes her time to helping those are unable to help themselves. In her…

  • Back On The Scene

    I'm back on the dating scene, but I'm not quite sure what dating entails. For most of my life, I've been in relationships with guys I knew. I've never gone on an actual date either. It was usually I met a guy at school…

  • What's Good for the Goose is Good for the Gander...

    One of my homeboys thinks he's slick. A couple days ago, he asked me to meet up with him so we could catch up on old times. I was intrigued. Back during my high schools days, he was the kind of guy that had the ultimate…

  • Can you hear me now?

    Lately, me and my ex have been dealing with a lot of drama, I know it's because our lack of communication. We're still great friends even though we're not together, yet it seems like every time I call him he's busy. I'…

  • For a long time now, I've been trying to understand the responsibilities of being a Christian. It's constant work to build the relationship I have with God, but at the same time I've tried my hardest to neglec…

  • To Do or Not To Do Without It

    Currently, me and my homegirl aren't on the greatest of terms. She only calls me to cry in my ear about this guy she used to date that she's still hung up on. Don't get me wrong. I love talking to my friend, but I can't…

  • Hi everyone! I'm just getting started on Datingish... Drop me a comment if you've got some ideas on what to do first - or just to say, "Hi!" :-)